Not My Finest Moment

It's interesting what sheer willpower and downright cockiness can do to you. For example, it can lead you to believe that you can handle a trip to the grocery store. By yourself. With 3 children in tow. It all started out well enough. A sunny day, powdery new snow dusting the world, Dunkin Donuts in hand, the promise (bribe?) of one of those tv cart thingys for the boys once we reached the store. (The only problem with that being that Grayson won't fit, requiring him to be strapped onto my person with the Moby Wrap. This is an excellent invention. Except for reasons of which you will soon be told here.) JJ and Ben held hands as we traversed through the parking lot - tra la la.
It's astonishing even in retrospect how quickly things unraveled. JJ decided he was done holding hands and ditched his brother who was decidedly NOT finished holding hands. So Ben handled this situation as any two-year-old might. By stopping in the middle of the road and screaming at the top of his lungs. And then in his distraught state toppling right over onto the wet pavement (it's difficult to throw a tantrum with boots on). With Grayson dangling on my front, I attempted to pick up a flailing Ben. Enter passersby #1 and 2: "Oh boy. Kids." "Is he tired?" Gee - that was very scintillating and necessary commentary old folks. Thanks for that.
I managed to get us all into the store, though not before dropping Ben's already nasty blanket in the dirtiest mud puddle in the surrounding area and stepping on it. Jeran was scoping out the tv carts when I mentioned that we had to make our way to the service desk (all the way on the other end of the store of course) to change my quarters into a dollar. Commence hollering and fit-throwing. (Do you feel my blood pressure rising yet?) I dragged a stubborn, still-unhappy Ben toward the customer service desk with Jeran reluctantly (and loudly) following, then stopping and refusing to move further. Well. That was enough. The conditions of this cart thingy were that the boys were cooperating on this trip and that clearly was not happening. So I took a deep breath and announced we were no longer shopping with a tv.
Remember that scene in the second Lord of the Rings film when the ringwraith is flying around overhead on that half bat/half snake creature? Do you recall the ear-splitting sound made during that scene? (Did several of you stop reading just now to ponder how much of a dork I am that I'm in love with those movies?) Then you have heard the sound my almost-five-year-old was making as he threw himself to the ground, in the MIDDLE of the walkway, and began flailing about. It was really a surreal moment.
Enter passerby #3. Sweet older lady bending over trying to calmly talk to the tasmanian devil I sometimes know as Jeran. She kept asking me if I wanted her to try picking him up, and all I could wonder was what kind of death wish she had. I can't even imagine all the places his kicking feet would land before she dropped him or broke a bone. She persisted. I declined. With gritted teeth (and I think a bit of a snarl in there).
At this point in the story I am grappling with my twenty-some pound two-year-old (made 10 lbs heavier by all his winter paraphernalia) trying to hoist him into the cart. UNSUCCESSFULLY grappling and hoisting I might add. The cumbersome addition of my infant son on my front section was an obstacle not easily overcome. Now I was really losing it. I'm sure my face was an interesting shade of red, my hair wildly out of place. Various other passerby are smirking as they stand, staring, and I'm ready to give them a tongue lashing. Or one of my children. Take THAT!
The grotesque details of our immediate departure from the store I need not bore you with. Suffice it to say - I blew it. Who wouldn't? you might say.
But I - don't - want - to be - that - mom- anymore.
I'm far more humiliated by how I behaved (without a single ounce of grace) than by how my children did. Who did all those people see today as they watched this situation unfold? Not Jesus, that's for sure. Jesus would not have said to his child, "I'm so embarrassed by you." He wouldn't have literally thrown his children into a shopping cart or barked at people who were only trying their darndest to be helpful. He wouldn't have been screaming at his son in the parking lot to get in the car and get his seat belt on.
The only redeeming parts of this whole experience are that a)I stuck to my guns and b) I received a hearty dose of humility along with a reminder that I cannot CANNOT do this job in my own strength.
And now here I sit. No motivation. No pride. No groceries.